Individually togahthah. Heavens above! How smashing!

bettyI am You and You are me in love,

I am I and   You are You in thought

Let us lead this life individually together.

“And as ridiculous as it may sound, sometimes all any of us needs in life is for someone to hold our hand and walk next to us.”
― James FreyThe Final Testament of the Holy Bible

If you ask me I would say

When someone asks us very specifically for the most memorable day, it kind of becomes dicey. Then comes the qualification, with “some you” love – though one is permitted to choose between closest friend, family or even pet  the underlying tone is partner, and guptagamini like the river Saraswati is “of the opposite gender.” –

Loving person some say needs them.  Maybe… for me it is not the desperate you complete me sort of way, No I do not need some to make me whole. May be someone who improves me, someone who could amplifying any goodness in my nature and mute the bad. Someone who is a catalyst for my soul, the need for the person is not for me to exist, but for me to be a better Me. — moments with such a person would definitely be memorable.

Think about it, people use the word ‘love’ in different ways, I often say I love my parents, I love my kids, but I also chole bature.  What I am saying in reference to my parents  and kids is that I care for them, I would like to spend time with them, but do I really? Not really but the choice of doing so should exist. This Maharishi Mahesh Yogi beautifully calls as the mother at home syndrome. I am saying that I am there if they need me, but I need them to need me. I would do every humanly possible to help them. I am saying that always want what’s best for them. I am willing to step down my high horse and accept what they think as best for they are best.

But would all this apply to the chole bature? Of course not! Once I am full I don’t really care what happens to the rest of it, I could give it to a dog or store it in my refrigerator until it turns into a science project.

What I am trying to say, is there are different definitions of the word love. And it is so confusing when people start talking about loving you. Which one of these ways do people love you? Do they love you? Do they want the best for you or do they just want you around because it is good for them and they don’t really care what happens to you. Next time someone looks deeply into your eyes and says “I love you” look deeply right back and say,”the French frieswallah or the real one” I wish I had the maturity to do it. — Moments with my family are cherished.

To me love is a commitment to cherish another’s heart as if it were my own, it is an adventure to seek into all that creates them, it is laying under the stars and dreaming far and wide, it is seeing fear and grabbing each other to face it anyway, it is allowing another to be themselves without my consent, it is knowing when darkness fill them I don’t carry their burden, I just lighten their load, and when my love hasn’t been as beautiful as this, I have been loving the wrong one.

Coming back to the prompt the image that we seem to try and build is acknowledging, recapturing and sharing that moment in our life that gave us strength and motivation we needed to go on with optimism. Optimism, hope, it can be a powerful force.  Not actual magic, but when you know that you hope for most and hold it like a light within you, you can make things happen that is almost like magic.

Yes we all go through those moments of hopelessness and we need that little nudge to get back on track.  The creator of the prompt feels, that this is the time that we all need the ones we love the most. Sorry, the person we need the most does turn up it is immaterial whether we love them or not… they say a good love is one that sits down, gives you a drink of water, and pats you on top the head. But I say good love is one that casts you into the wind, sets you ablaze, makes you burn through the skies and ignite the night like a phoenix; the kind that cuts you lose like a wildfire and you can’t stop running simply because you keep on burning everything that you touch ! That good love, it burns and flies and you run with it!

When you someone is depressed, please resolve never to ask them why. There is never a straight forward response to a bad situation, for depression just is, like the weather.  When I am depressed, I go through blackness, lethargy, hopelessness and loneliness, I just want someone to be there for me when I come through on the other side. I also know it’s had to be a friend to someone who’s depressed, but is probably one of the kindest, noblest and best things a person can do.

True friends are those who come into our lives, saw the most negative part of us, but not ready to leave us, no matter how contagious we are to them. Moments with such a friend is treasured.  But sharing and betting advice, no thank you, unburdening maybe.

Truly memorable moments are those that give me dignity.– “Dignity
/ˈdignitē/ noun

1. The moment you realize that the person you cared for has nothing intellectually or spiritually to offer you, but a headache.

2. The moment you realize God had greater plans for you that don’t involve crying at night or sad Pinterest quotes.

3. The moment you stop comparing yourself to others because it undermines your worth, education and your parent’s wisdom.

4. The moment you live your dreams, not because of what it will prove or get you, but because that is all you want to do. People’s opinions don’t matter.

5. The moment you realize that no one is your enemy, except yourself.

6. The moment you realize that you can have everything you want in life. However, it takes timing, the right heart, the right actions, the right passion and a willingness to risk it all. If it is not yours, it is because you really didn’t want it, need it or God prevented it.

7. The moment you realize the ghost of your ancestors stood between you and the person you loved. They really don’t want you mucking up the family line with someone that acts anything less than honourable.

8. The moment you realize that happiness was never about getting a person. They are only a helpmate towards achieving your life mission.

9. The moment you believe that love is not about losing or winning. It is just a few moments in time, followed by an eternity of situations to grow from.

10. The moment you realize that you were always the right person. Only ignorant people walk away from greatness.”
― Shannon L. Alder


― Vera NazarianThe Perpetual Calendar of Inspiration


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